i just watched greysanatomy. i think its sweet that karev is taking good care of izzie, bringing her her meds in the OT.hihi...
anyhoo, nak gak bagitahu that it reminds me of Dr Sunshine. I remember when I had my cystsectomy (sp?) in 2005. he was only my tunang masa tu but he was the one who took care of me at the hospy, tidor kat spital ittew dan datang melawat dan tidor di spital setiap hari. my parents just come to visit me.i remember seeing daddy and mak. and how they were talking hush hush sebab i just came out from surgery. and i remember Dr Sunshine telling me (when i was a bit better) that i asked for him after i woke up...hahaha...
neway, i think i am very lucky to have him as my husband. he brings home my meds, he frequently checks my lungs when i've been coughing for a few days, he urut my hand when it was sore, he brings me my ponstan when i have my migraines, he give me my antihistamine when i have my flu. hmm..i miss him.
he takes very good care of me. when i gave birth to Dani, we came home from the hospital to an empty house. none of my siblings or other family members were there to greet me or tengok baby baru. i was quite upset but it wasnt as if they did it on purpose, daddy was hospitalised you see. there were no food on the table so Dr Sunshine made me nasi goreng. it may sound easy for some of you yg husband memang masak, but my sunshine, he doesnt cook. so it was a big thing.the nasi goreng memang sedap.
when i gave birth to andi,again, it was just the two of us.together, we got through my pantang period (yang tak macam pantang pon). but you know, bila dah buat benda ni sendiri, we have confidence in ourselves. now, i dah berangan if next time pregnant masa kat kl nanti, nak pantang kat rumah sendiri...tapi at that time dah ada 2 boys yg dah besar..tak tahu la cemano..huhu.
hmm...entry malam ni macam reflexive sket. haha. i miss Dr Sunshine and Dani, pasal tu macam emo semacam. syukur sesangat andi is with me. at least i have someone...:)
beb, thank you for being the greatest gift ever.
Friday, October 9, 2009
not again!!
it rained today but strangely, there seem to be a lot of people on the streets and in the bus.
anyhoo, as usual, i sent andi to daycare. everyday, we would take the bus. it will take us about 40minutes to reach the destination. sometimes it can be faster, kengkadang sampai dekat sejam pon tak sampai lagi cos it all depends on the traffic and if ada Unfall (accident).
so today, Andi was a bit active and didnt want to sit in his stroller. i took him out and sat at the chair closest to where i parked my stroller. and then, 3 guys came in. one sat next to me and 2 other sat behind me. they were talking about going to school and etc. sesambil tu dok agah2 andi. mak pelik gaks tapi biar je la kan orang nak main dengan andi ni.
after a few stops, dorang turun. fine. then i reached my stop. as i stood up, this nice man pointed out that my backpack was unzipped!!! adoii.....percubaan untuk pick poket telah berlaku! geramnye rasa. i bet it was those three guys!!! benci betol la...
nasib baik i learnt my lesson (after previously being pick poecketed) and placed my wallet in my pocket! tu pon hari ni bawak wallet. slalunyer, i just travel with my bankomat and my travel pass. lelain duk diam-diam kat rumah.
Syukur Alhamdulillah barang2 terselamat. if not, cannot imagine the hassle of applying for all the cards lagie. tapi kali ni, my residence permit, ic and etc sume simpan kat rumah. dalam wallet ada bankomat, ecard dan travel pass sajor.
anyway u ols, berhati-hati bila travel. ingat...dont put everything in ur wallet (like i did!!) pastu, to sesaper yg dok overseas tu, silalah kluarkan ic, driving licence malaysia, kad bank malaysia n credit cards from ur wallets....bukan guna pon. okla..kredit card tu bila terasa akan shoping tu bawak la..if not guna jer debit card u ols! these people aim those yg bawa baby especially. yelaa..kita ralit tgk baby etc..tak sedar kan beg cemana. (yg pelik, i thot i sandar on the bag but still they managed! memang profesional.)
pastu, if nak bertambah senang, just bawak ur debit card saje. tapi kat mesia mak tak sure la plak bleh guna ke tak debit card tu merata. huhu.
tu je nasihat buat hari ini...:)
anyhoo, as usual, i sent andi to daycare. everyday, we would take the bus. it will take us about 40minutes to reach the destination. sometimes it can be faster, kengkadang sampai dekat sejam pon tak sampai lagi cos it all depends on the traffic and if ada Unfall (accident).
so today, Andi was a bit active and didnt want to sit in his stroller. i took him out and sat at the chair closest to where i parked my stroller. and then, 3 guys came in. one sat next to me and 2 other sat behind me. they were talking about going to school and etc. sesambil tu dok agah2 andi. mak pelik gaks tapi biar je la kan orang nak main dengan andi ni.
after a few stops, dorang turun. fine. then i reached my stop. as i stood up, this nice man pointed out that my backpack was unzipped!!! adoii.....percubaan untuk pick poket telah berlaku! geramnye rasa. i bet it was those three guys!!! benci betol la...
nasib baik i learnt my lesson (after previously being pick poecketed) and placed my wallet in my pocket! tu pon hari ni bawak wallet. slalunyer, i just travel with my bankomat and my travel pass. lelain duk diam-diam kat rumah.
Syukur Alhamdulillah barang2 terselamat. if not, cannot imagine the hassle of applying for all the cards lagie. tapi kali ni, my residence permit, ic and etc sume simpan kat rumah. dalam wallet ada bankomat, ecard dan travel pass sajor.
anyway u ols, berhati-hati bila travel. ingat...dont put everything in ur wallet (like i did!!) pastu, to sesaper yg dok overseas tu, silalah kluarkan ic, driving licence malaysia, kad bank malaysia n credit cards from ur wallets....bukan guna pon. okla..kredit card tu bila terasa akan shoping tu bawak la..if not guna jer debit card u ols! these people aim those yg bawa baby especially. yelaa..kita ralit tgk baby etc..tak sedar kan beg cemana. (yg pelik, i thot i sandar on the bag but still they managed! memang profesional.)
pastu, if nak bertambah senang, just bawak ur debit card saje. tapi kat mesia mak tak sure la plak bleh guna ke tak debit card tu merata. huhu.
tu je nasihat buat hari ini...:)
Thursday, October 8, 2009
hari ini
today, i shall hopefully settle my registration thingys and find out what classes i am supposed to take. And then, bila dah tahu berapa kelas nak ambik, nak pi beli stationaries...i love shopping for stationaries.
okla...nanti kat rumah update lagi. la ni kat eltern zimmer. i need to make my way to the uni...ciao.
okla...nanti kat rumah update lagi. la ni kat eltern zimmer. i need to make my way to the uni...ciao.
Tuesday, October 6, 2009
Jadual saya
Finally, i think we have a routine.
5-ish am:
Andi wakes up cos dia BO so mama dia pon terpaksa bangun jugek
Change Andi's diaper
Semayang
Tido balik
7am:
Andi wakes up again
I vacuum and Andi main2
8am:
Breakfast for Andi
Mandi time
Nap
9am:
I eat breakfast, switch on lappie, mandi
10-ish:
Andi bangun n main2.
Sometimes he just wakes up to minum susu n tido balik.
On some days, I'd go out and do my groceries or pi bank...tgk mood budak kecik macam mana.
11-ish
get ready for daycare, pack bags etc
12
gerak to daycare
12.30-3-45
i have time to myself!!! wehoooo
4pm:
balik rumah
4.45pm
at home, relaks
change diaper again n change to baju tido
andi main
5-ish
susu time and tidooooo
after that, he wakes up every few hours nak susu or nak tepuk or nak check if i'm in the room. huhu.
usually, i'd either cook, sediakan andi's bubur at around this time. ohh...sometimes i do the laundry too.
i sleep at about 1030 or 11.
thats how we usually spend our day. at night, mmg boring gila. which is why i said i needed a hobby! tapi then again kelas tak start lagik, kan??
5-ish am:
Andi wakes up cos dia BO so mama dia pon terpaksa bangun jugek
Change Andi's diaper
Semayang
Tido balik
7am:
Andi wakes up again
I vacuum and Andi main2
8am:
Breakfast for Andi
Mandi time
Nap
9am:
I eat breakfast, switch on lappie, mandi
10-ish:
Andi bangun n main2.
Sometimes he just wakes up to minum susu n tido balik.
On some days, I'd go out and do my groceries or pi bank...tgk mood budak kecik macam mana.
11-ish
get ready for daycare, pack bags etc
12
gerak to daycare
12.30-3-45
i have time to myself!!! wehoooo
4pm:
balik rumah
4.45pm
at home, relaks
change diaper again n change to baju tido
andi main
5-ish
susu time and tidooooo
after that, he wakes up every few hours nak susu or nak tepuk or nak check if i'm in the room. huhu.
usually, i'd either cook, sediakan andi's bubur at around this time. ohh...sometimes i do the laundry too.
i sleep at about 1030 or 11.
thats how we usually spend our day. at night, mmg boring gila. which is why i said i needed a hobby! tapi then again kelas tak start lagik, kan??
Monday, October 5, 2009
belajar dari kesilapan
dah tiga kali i started to write something and all three times, my lappie decided to shut down dengansendirinya. *tensi*
neway, untuk memendekkan cerita
- berjaya ke ikea dengan menaiki tram n then a bus and menghangkut pulang baby chair, kotak plastik and that gantung jaring thingy, along with a stroller dgn budak kecik sorang, naik bas dan kemudian tram untuk pulang ke rumah. letih...memang mencabar terutama bila ada budak kecik tu decided that he had enough of sitting in the stroller and wanted to be carried. tapi, happy to note that i managed. i know for sure if i was in KL, i would be too lembik to do all this. i guess when i have dr sunshine around, i am so dependent on him. hihi.
- nak cerita pasal politikus kat tempat tinggal saya sekarang ni. suffice to say, if you are not close to the right people, you will not be invited to open houses. *sedih*. but, i have made a strategy..ahhahaha....there's this new lady in town and i met her once before. the thing is, unlike the other ladies yg tak bekerja dan ikut suami dtg ke sini (no offense tu kengkawan saya yg mengikut suami merantau) this lady is intellectual. she was a lecturer and while her husband works, she contacted the unis and offered her expertise in doing research. jadi saya rasa dia adalah orang yg seswai untuk dibuat kawan, walaupun bidang expertise kami jauh panggang dari api gittew.
-saya ketagih bermain cafe world on fb. bad. i know. tsk. boleh tak sebab dah ter-masak roast beef (it took me two days to masak okei), memaksa diri balik rumah in time for it to be served. if not rugi okei stove mak 2 hari guna masak bendalah tu pastu alih-alih basi plak. sape nak jadi negihbour ai kat cafe world?? hihi. dan sebab nak kena continuously monitor cafe saya (yg saya namakan Mulut...mmg, if i have a cafe or restaurant..nak namakan mulut..cos kan slalu orang tanya...nak makan kat mana...kat mulut..ihihih..ok..i digress) saya bukak 2 window untuk fb dimana satunya KHAS untuk cafe saya sahaja. tsk. i'm officially a suchtiger (addict dalam bahaso German)
- i need a hobby! the reason i play cafe world is i have no LIFE!! thank god i send my child to the day care. over there, i get to talk to other adults in English...and they are mostly masters and phd students. it feels really good to be able to talk to someone else! anyhoo..once i'm home, i hv nothing to do except surf the net..so, i think i need a hobby. apa pendapat u ols? crossstitch atau knitting? saya verangan nak menulis about being a single parent aborad tapi kat mana tempat yg seswai utk saya contribute hoh?
-i've been munching like nobody's business tapi i thank god i balance it with a lot of walking. buuttt...i am telling myself that this is the LAST week for me to eat all those unhealthy junks. im going to be eating fruits beginning next week (wish me luck cos me and fruits...not a good relationship there).
-dani banyak bercakap and dah not so pelat. i am so excited that he's going to kindy next year, insyaAllah. saya teramat excited that almost every day, i'd google to find any feedbacks on the said kindy, Genius Aulad. eiihh...bestnyer...my son is growing up.
- Andi plak can already stand and inching his way sambil pegang bucu katil and whatever bucu he could grab on. he's also very chatty nowadays. tegur people on the bus, tram and all that. he's slowly getting used to the daycare. and hari2 benjy akan kiss andi goodbye. so cute ok. btw, benjy ni budak campur mat salleh and kulit hitam...so his skin is not that dark n rambut dia blonde. kiut ok. tapi yg lagi kiut (selain andi obviously..harusla mak dia bias kann) ialah seorang budak korean/japanese bernama Nomin. ya Rabbi...so geedebe dia nieh...and super comelz! shes almost 2 y.o.
-i paid my fees of almost 400euros and can only register this trhusday. pasal kelas, i'm still not sure. id have to go to my skool to find out what i should take. tapi rasenye ada independent study...hoyehhh...me likey independent study. at least adalah benda nak buat kaann..
-speaking of which, rasa nak menghakmilikkan satu pc kat eltern zimmer tu as mine. nak tiru taktik ayang yang menghakmilikkan pc kat postgrad suite as hers. shall hias2 that corner..huhu. speaking of which, since mak dah nak start phd classes dgn skool ni, mak dapat opis la kot ek> eiihh...sexcitednyer mak u ols!!
- oh...Dr Sunshine sitting for his exam on Nov 2nd. I really hope and doa that he passes. the thing is, the failure rate is 85%. cuba u ols imagine!! masa mock exam last week, less than 10 out of 120 ppl passed. how?? tapi insyaAllah ok kot. cos if he passes...
- we'll be going for a euro trip! that is so exciting. tapi if dia pass la. he plans to come over during summer and then we'll go jenjalan...bestnyerr...i still cant decide where to go first...istanbul? itali? switzerland? germany? paris masa bebudak dah besar sket baru nak pi.then baru dorang bleh enjoy disneyland!
- my sis gave birth via lscs a few days back to a baby gurl. and right now, she's tandem feeding! mak respect sama dia u ols!
- kunci rmh saye di bsp dah boley diambil! i m super excited tht my house dah siap. tp, risau gk cos dr sunshine sorg je yg nk cek defect semua...hmmm...tp, excited all the same!
oraity..ittew saje laporan saya hari ini. tu dia..punya panjang sebab nak lepas germa 3 kali tak leh nak blog.
roger.
neway, untuk memendekkan cerita
- berjaya ke ikea dengan menaiki tram n then a bus and menghangkut pulang baby chair, kotak plastik and that gantung jaring thingy, along with a stroller dgn budak kecik sorang, naik bas dan kemudian tram untuk pulang ke rumah. letih...memang mencabar terutama bila ada budak kecik tu decided that he had enough of sitting in the stroller and wanted to be carried. tapi, happy to note that i managed. i know for sure if i was in KL, i would be too lembik to do all this. i guess when i have dr sunshine around, i am so dependent on him. hihi.
- nak cerita pasal politikus kat tempat tinggal saya sekarang ni. suffice to say, if you are not close to the right people, you will not be invited to open houses. *sedih*. but, i have made a strategy..ahhahaha....there's this new lady in town and i met her once before. the thing is, unlike the other ladies yg tak bekerja dan ikut suami dtg ke sini (no offense tu kengkawan saya yg mengikut suami merantau) this lady is intellectual. she was a lecturer and while her husband works, she contacted the unis and offered her expertise in doing research. jadi saya rasa dia adalah orang yg seswai untuk dibuat kawan, walaupun bidang expertise kami jauh panggang dari api gittew.
-saya ketagih bermain cafe world on fb. bad. i know. tsk. boleh tak sebab dah ter-masak roast beef (it took me two days to masak okei), memaksa diri balik rumah in time for it to be served. if not rugi okei stove mak 2 hari guna masak bendalah tu pastu alih-alih basi plak. sape nak jadi negihbour ai kat cafe world?? hihi. dan sebab nak kena continuously monitor cafe saya (yg saya namakan Mulut...mmg, if i have a cafe or restaurant..nak namakan mulut..cos kan slalu orang tanya...nak makan kat mana...kat mulut..ihihih..ok..i digress) saya bukak 2 window untuk fb dimana satunya KHAS untuk cafe saya sahaja. tsk. i'm officially a suchtiger (addict dalam bahaso German)
- i need a hobby! the reason i play cafe world is i have no LIFE!! thank god i send my child to the day care. over there, i get to talk to other adults in English...and they are mostly masters and phd students. it feels really good to be able to talk to someone else! anyhoo..once i'm home, i hv nothing to do except surf the net..so, i think i need a hobby. apa pendapat u ols? crossstitch atau knitting? saya verangan nak menulis about being a single parent aborad tapi kat mana tempat yg seswai utk saya contribute hoh?
-i've been munching like nobody's business tapi i thank god i balance it with a lot of walking. buuttt...i am telling myself that this is the LAST week for me to eat all those unhealthy junks. im going to be eating fruits beginning next week (wish me luck cos me and fruits...not a good relationship there).
-dani banyak bercakap and dah not so pelat. i am so excited that he's going to kindy next year, insyaAllah. saya teramat excited that almost every day, i'd google to find any feedbacks on the said kindy, Genius Aulad. eiihh...bestnyer...my son is growing up.
- Andi plak can already stand and inching his way sambil pegang bucu katil and whatever bucu he could grab on. he's also very chatty nowadays. tegur people on the bus, tram and all that. he's slowly getting used to the daycare. and hari2 benjy akan kiss andi goodbye. so cute ok. btw, benjy ni budak campur mat salleh and kulit hitam...so his skin is not that dark n rambut dia blonde. kiut ok. tapi yg lagi kiut (selain andi obviously..harusla mak dia bias kann) ialah seorang budak korean/japanese bernama Nomin. ya Rabbi...so geedebe dia nieh...and super comelz! shes almost 2 y.o.
-i paid my fees of almost 400euros and can only register this trhusday. pasal kelas, i'm still not sure. id have to go to my skool to find out what i should take. tapi rasenye ada independent study...hoyehhh...me likey independent study. at least adalah benda nak buat kaann..
-speaking of which, rasa nak menghakmilikkan satu pc kat eltern zimmer tu as mine. nak tiru taktik ayang yang menghakmilikkan pc kat postgrad suite as hers. shall hias2 that corner..huhu. speaking of which, since mak dah nak start phd classes dgn skool ni, mak dapat opis la kot ek> eiihh...sexcitednyer mak u ols!!
- oh...Dr Sunshine sitting for his exam on Nov 2nd. I really hope and doa that he passes. the thing is, the failure rate is 85%. cuba u ols imagine!! masa mock exam last week, less than 10 out of 120 ppl passed. how?? tapi insyaAllah ok kot. cos if he passes...
- we'll be going for a euro trip! that is so exciting. tapi if dia pass la. he plans to come over during summer and then we'll go jenjalan...bestnyerr...i still cant decide where to go first...istanbul? itali? switzerland? germany? paris masa bebudak dah besar sket baru nak pi.then baru dorang bleh enjoy disneyland!
- my sis gave birth via lscs a few days back to a baby gurl. and right now, she's tandem feeding! mak respect sama dia u ols!
- kunci rmh saye di bsp dah boley diambil! i m super excited tht my house dah siap. tp, risau gk cos dr sunshine sorg je yg nk cek defect semua...hmmm...tp, excited all the same!
oraity..ittew saje laporan saya hari ini. tu dia..punya panjang sebab nak lepas germa 3 kali tak leh nak blog.
roger.
Friday, October 2, 2009
anakku
so today, andi and i went out in the morning cos i really wanted to get him some strumpfhose and those thermal shirts and also breakfast cereal and some jar baby food.
after he had his bath n susu, i strapped him in the carrier and off we went. i managed to get 3 pairs of strumpfhose and 3 thermals. pastu we went to buy his food.n then balik flat and he slept in the carrier.
i let him sleep (sakit belakang okei). bila dah dekat time nak pi day care, he woke up. so, susu again and strapped him to the stroller and off we went.
sesampai di day care, i put him down near the toys and letak barang dia dekat his locker. the carer told me that if i want to wait in the parents room i can. so asked them if its ok for me to go out and buy lunch...dorang kata go ahead. so i went out. when i came back about 20 minutes later, andi was still ok. so dorang kata pi la makan kat elternzimmer. and i did. and i lepak sana siap main uno bagai (its really addictive!) sampaaiiii 3 lebih...then orang semua dah nak balik..so barulah i terkedek-kedek pegi tgk anak. and he was FINE!! I am sooooooooo happy. Syukur sangat ya Allah...i think Andi is finally adapting himself. apparently, they fed him and changed his diaper, and managed to tidurkan dia!!! thats an accomplishment okeii...to be able to tidorkan dia!!
i really hope this will continue sampai bebila. terima kasih ya Allah sebab permudahkan urusan saya.
p/s: smalam, i left him for almost 2 hours..kali ni 3 jam lebih!! :)
after he had his bath n susu, i strapped him in the carrier and off we went. i managed to get 3 pairs of strumpfhose and 3 thermals. pastu we went to buy his food.n then balik flat and he slept in the carrier.
i let him sleep (sakit belakang okei). bila dah dekat time nak pi day care, he woke up. so, susu again and strapped him to the stroller and off we went.
sesampai di day care, i put him down near the toys and letak barang dia dekat his locker. the carer told me that if i want to wait in the parents room i can. so asked them if its ok for me to go out and buy lunch...dorang kata go ahead. so i went out. when i came back about 20 minutes later, andi was still ok. so dorang kata pi la makan kat elternzimmer. and i did. and i lepak sana siap main uno bagai (its really addictive!) sampaaiiii 3 lebih...then orang semua dah nak balik..so barulah i terkedek-kedek pegi tgk anak. and he was FINE!! I am sooooooooo happy. Syukur sangat ya Allah...i think Andi is finally adapting himself. apparently, they fed him and changed his diaper, and managed to tidurkan dia!!! thats an accomplishment okeii...to be able to tidorkan dia!!
i really hope this will continue sampai bebila. terima kasih ya Allah sebab permudahkan urusan saya.
p/s: smalam, i left him for almost 2 hours..kali ni 3 jam lebih!! :)
Thursday, October 1, 2009
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