ampers

ampers is pampers in bahasa AA. hehe.

Anyway, yesterday AA was quite naughty because he took off his diaper and peed on my mom's carpet! haih. Ni yang buat ai tak sabar nak toilet train him ni.

So today, the papa yang baru balik dari oc, jumpa AA and asked AA about it. AA senyap aje. And then the papa tanya, "boleh ke tak boleh PU kat carpet?" And he continued by saying: "budak yang tak good boy je buat macam tu, and AA good boy kan? If nak bukak pampers, kena pergi PU kat toilet." Masa papa tengah bagi syarahan tu, AA dah sebak-sebak dah. And then, bermulalah sesi menangis kesedihan sebab kena lecture dengan Papa. So, Papa had to stop bagi lecture. hih hih.

Then, my mom told Dr Sunshine (a.k.a the Papa) that AA likes to climb the grill sampai tinggi-tinggi. So, the papa asked, "AA panjat grill ke?" AA cakap: "tak de tak de." Papa asked pulak, "habistu siapa yang panjat?" AA jawab "yaya" (cousin dia). But of course we know better la kan. Maka, bermulalah lagi satu siri syarahan dari the Papa about how dangerous it is to climb the grill and also if AA good boy, AA tak buat benda-benda macam tu. And, nangis lagi sekalilah anak mama sebab kena lecture.

I don't know about you, but all parents ada their own way to discipline their child. I know of some yang suka herdik anak-anak. Ada yang pukul, cubit and tampar. Ada yang bagi time out. I personally tak agree dengan taktik mengherdik (like panggil budak tu bodoh or lembab or something to that effect) or memukul, tapi to hak ibu bapa masing-masing la kan.

For Dr Sunshine and I, we like to tell them what they did wrong but of course dengan stern and strict punya voice. hehe. Tapi tak de la sampai nak menjerit-jerit. And I sometimes akan bagi time out kat the boys. When AA was a crawling baby, bila dia tak behave I like to bedung dia macam baby kecik and count to 10 sebab nak suruh time out susah kan. Kadang-kadang dia struggle, tapi kadang-kadang dia suka pulak. hehe.

For AD pulak, i always tanya dia bila dia nak start buat perangai:"AD behave ke tak behave?" and masa dia kecik-kecik dia akan jawab "be-hef". That line still work on him. hehe. Tapi katalah if all else fails, I resort to, if tak behave mama bagitahu papa. That works like a charm!!

Its amazing how the boys respect Dr Sunshine tremendously. Padahal Dr Sunshine tak pernah nak marah-marah dorang and manjakan dorang sangat-sangat. For the boys, anything the Papa says, goes. Papa panggil makan ubat, masing-masing nganga jer mulut. But if orang lain, kena wrestling dulu, barulah nak makan ubat.

I cannot wait to tengok my boys perangai for myself. I just hope that I would not turn out to be a screaming mama sebab dah lama kan tak layan karenahan dorang ni. hiks.