sharing is caring #4

hari ni, i nak meng-sharing is caring-kan benda yang i heard ustaz don talked about on youtube. I really thought long and hard about it, and I find that there are truths in what he said. Apakah??

Well, basically, he was talking about children. Macam mana anak itu terbentuk perangai and sikapnya. He said, ada bapa imam shafie cakap (tak silap i it was imam shafie), masa ditanya, macam mana dia boleh dapat anak yang sangat genius macam imam shafie, dia jawab, it all starts with pemilihan ibunya. So, ibu memang memainkan peranan penting dalam hal ni.

Then, he was also talking about al-imran's wife, masa mengandungkan Maryam. The wife cakap, lahir nanti, dia dah bernazar that the anak akan berbakti kepada Allah kat Baitul Maqdis. And true enough, anak dia berbakti, sehingga melahirkan seorang Nabi.

Pastu, Ustaz Don talked about himself. Dia kata, masa mak dia mengandungkan dia, mak dia cakap dan doa that he will be a fisabillilah. And true enough, dia jadik ustaz.

So, it got me thinking, doa ibu, masa mengandung, unto the anak yang dia kandung, akan effect kandungan dia.

So, my friends yang tengah pregnant tu, rajin-rajin la cakap dengan your baby about what you wish him or her to be. I remember, everytime I mandi, I told my baby that nanti kena mandi 2 kali sehari cos I didnt want them to not like to mandi...hehe...And Alhamdullilah, my boys have no problem nak suruh pergi mandi. Ok, I should have given a better contoh..hahahah..

Apa pon, talk to them. And make lots of doa supaya anak yang kita kandung tu jadi orang yang baik, soleh, mendengar kata, sihat, bijak, pandai. And sometimes, kita kena be aware of what we think of wish for subconsiously as well. Well, if its something good, ok lah. Tapi, kalau tak, tak ke naya.

Macam myself, I think I subconciously wished that my babies would be easy to be taken care of and independent. And, Alhamdullillah, Tuhan bagi I baby yang sedemikian.

So, please don't feel like its weird to talk to your baby dalam perut tu ok. Its never too late to start. :)

p.s: Ustaz Don also said that doa ibu bapa adalah doa yang paling mustajab, inshaAllah.

p.ps: Another thing I like to do is to semayang jemaah with my husband and ajak the boys sama. Now best becos Dani can iqamat. Of course Andi just tonggek kejap pastu sujud but its a start, kan? Ustaz Don kata, as parents, we should do what we want our kids to follow and refrain from doing things we dont want our kids to do.