bibik or no bibik?

Hmm....dah dekat nak balik ni, macam-macam pulak lah idea Dr Sunshine.

Firstly, dia tetiba cakap tak nak hantar Dani to SRAI. There goes my keinginan. :( So, sekolah kebangsaan it is. But, I am going to try and get him placed in one of the smart schools, inshaAllah.

And now, he asked me to think about having a bibik. Sigh. I don't know. His argument (to have bibik) seems to make sense. BUt on the other hand, I don't like to have another person living in my house. So, how?

Why should I have bibik (menurut dr sunshine)
-the amount we are going to fork out for daycare + weekly cleaner is more than what we would fork out if ada bibik (who will be able to clean the house everyday)
- if mak or MIL datang, ada la teman kat rumah
- house will be clean.
- I would not be tired sangat sebab ada orang tolong buat house chores.
- we can go out for late night movies and mamak, without having to carry the boys (yang tengah tidur)
- can go for bike rides.
- senang mak to datang stay with us (we are trying to pujuk her to stay with us..hehe...along with my Along. :))

why i don't feel like having a bibik
- because I don't like having a stranger in the house
- i have trust issues and takut nak tinggalkan my boys with her.

so cemana sekarang ni uols?

to have bibik or not?

i was thinking, if nak ada bibik, Dr Sunshine kena install cctv so that i can see what she is doing.

hmm...if you were in my shoes, nak bibik ke tak??